I've discovered that you can't change people. They can change themselves. - Jim Rohn . . We all want to be loved and accepted, just as we are. We want people to honor our interests, Value our needs, and respect our choices in life. So, why then, do we expect other people to sacrifice theirs for us? Why do we hope people will change their goals. habits, and values to be better align with ours when they haven't given us any indication they'd be happier do it? Sometimes we think we know what's best for others, but if we're honest with ourselves, we'll likely realize we want people change when we simply don't feel satisfied being in a relationship with them as they are. Relationship are all about compromise, and there's no such thing as a perfect match. But we owe it to ourselves to recognize what's non-negotiable in relationships, so we don't end up resentfully sacrificing our needs while secretly hoping...
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